Parent & Caregiver Tips · By Cheryl, a retired speech-language pathologist with more than 40 years of experience working with infants, toddlers, and preschoolers.
If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Does that count as a word?” — you’re not alone.
Parents often ask me this when their baby says something like “woof” while pointing at the dog, or “ba” while reaching for a bottle. It’s exciting… but also a little confusing.
And right alongside that question is another big one: when do babies say their first word?
You may have heard that babies should say their first word around their first birthday, and have about 10 words by 18 months. But as I always remind parents — babies don’t read milestone charts. They develop on their own timeline.
Still, understanding what counts as a word can help you:
So let’s walk through it together.
As a speech-language pathologist, I look for three simple things. A sound counts as a real word when it is:
And here’s the important part: it does not have to sound perfect.
Learning to talk is a lot like learning a new language. The sounds are new, and little mouths are still figuring out how to move.
That’s where something called word approximations comes in.
You might hear your child say:
These are called word approximations, and yes — they absolutely count as words.
If your child uses that same sound consistently, with meaning, and on their own… it counts.
This is one parents ask all the time — and the answer is: sometimes.
Counts: Your child sees a cow, points, and says “moo” — they are using that sound as a label.
Doesn’t count yet: You ask “What does a cow say?” and your child responds “moo” — that’s more of a learned response, not a word.
The difference is whether your child is using the sound to communicate something on their own.
These often show up early — but they only count as true words when they are used specifically and intentionally.
Not a word yet: Saying “mamamama” while babbling
Counts: Reaching for mom and saying “mama”
The same goes for names like “dada,” “nana,” or even pet names.
Some sounds are important steps toward talking — but don’t count as words just yet. These include:
You might also wonder: does babbling count as talking? Not quite — but it’s a very important step toward talking. Babbling is your child practicing the sounds they’ll use later in real words.
Yes — they can. If your child:
…and does this consistently and intentionally, those are meaningful communication attempts. We often count these alongside early words because they show your child understands how communication works.
Around 12 months, many babies are just starting to say their first word. By 18 months, we often expect at least 10 words, though many children have more.
If you’re wondering about this stage, you can read more here: My 18-Month-Old Is Not Talking Yet. Should I Be Worried?
Once you start noticing all the different ways your child communicates, you may be surprised how much they’re already saying.
A simple way to keep track:
If it passes the three-part test (consistent, intentional, spontaneous) — count it.
If your child is not using any intentional communication — gestures, signs, or sounds — by around 16 months, it’s worth checking in with a speech-language pathologist.
Sometimes children are just on the verge of talking. Other times, they may need a bit of extra support to get started.
Start a running list of your child’s words. Use the free downloadable chart at the top of this page — it’s a small step, but it can give you a much clearer picture of their progress and help you feel more confident about what you’re seeing.
The best way to encourage your child’s first words is simple: respond.
When your child gestures, signs, or makes a sound — treat it like communication. If they say “da,” you might respond:
“Oh, you want Dad! Here’s Dad! Yes — Dad!”
You’re showing them that their sounds have meaning — and that’s what helps turn sounds into real words.
Watching your baby learn to talk is one of the most exciting parts of early development. And once you know what to look for, you’ll start to see those first words everywhere.