Parent & Caregiver Tips · By Cheryl, a retired speech-language pathologist with more than 40 years of experience working with infants, toddlers, and preschoolers.
If you are looking for a baby shower gift for a first-time parent, you probably want to give them something they will actually use. Sleepers, diapers, blankets, and other practical gifts are always appreciated—but sometimes those things have already been taken care of, and you have the flexibility to get a little more creative.
If that’s the case, let’s look at gifts that encourage interaction, play, and early communication—without adding more work to a new parent’s already busy day.
So much communication development happens during a baby’s first year. The good news is that helping a baby learn language doesn’t require expensive electronic toys, flash cards, or special lessons. Some of the best gifts are simple things that help parents and babies talk, play, sing, and enjoy everyday routines together.
When I choose books and toys for babies, I’m not looking for products that drill colours, shapes, numbers, or the alphabet. There will be plenty of time for those things later. During babyhood, I look for simple toys and books that give adults and babies something to talk about, play with, and enjoy together.
Here are two baby shower gift ideas designed with early language development in mind.
Because most babies will eventually spend plenty of time in the bath, bath toys can be a wonderful baby shower gift. They make an everyday routine more fun and give parents easy opportunities to talk and play with their baby—without adding another activity to an already busy day.
A simple bathtime gift set might include:
That’s it. Nothing complicated and no need to break the bank.
A parent can hide the duck under a washcloth and ask:
“Where’s ducky?”
Then pull it out: “There he is! Quack, quack!”
Parents can wash the duck and then wash baby:
“Wash ducky’s tummy. Now wash your tummy!”
“Where are ducky’s eyes? There they are! Where are your eyes?”
With one simple toy, babies can hear words for body parts, actions, animals, sounds, and everyday routines.
And as babies get older, they may begin to join in with gestures, sounds, and eventually words of their own.
A vinyl or waterproof baby book can also be a lifesaver for busy parents who need their little one to sit happily in the tub for more than a few seconds.
While baby looks at the book, the parent can talk about the pictures while getting the washing done.
And sometimes baby will just want to chew on the book. That’s okay too!
“Oh, do you like that? Is that book tasty? Oh my goodness! That’s not to eat!”
Language learning doesn’t always look like a lesson. Sometimes it’s just a parent talking and laughing with a baby who is happily chewing on a waterproof book.
Please note: I have no financial stake in any of these products. Prices are approximate and may vary.
Munchkin White Hot Ducky Safety Bath Toy — approximately $5 CAD
I like this classic rubber duck because it is simple, inexpensive, and can be used in so many ways. Parents can make duck sounds, play peekaboo, name body parts, pretend to wash the duck, and eventually encourage simple words such as “duck” and “quack.” It also doubles as a bath-temperature indicator.
Tub Works Savanna Mold-Free Bath Toys, 6-Pack — approximately $20 CAD
A small collection of waterproof animals gives parents lots to talk about. They can name the animals, make animal sounds, talk about body parts, hide and find them, wash them, or create simple pretend-play adventures as baby gets older.
Bath Time! by Sandra Boynton — approximately $13 CAD
A waterproof book is perfect for the bath because babies can look at it, touch it, splash it, and even mouth it. Parents can talk about the pictures without worrying about ruining the book.
A Set of Soft Baby Washcloths — approximately $13 CAD
Washcloths may seem like an ordinary gift, but they can become part of play too. Parents can hide a toy underneath one, play peekaboo, or talk about washing baby’s hands, feet, tummy, and toes.
Depending on current prices and where you shop, you could put together this entire bathtime language gift set for approximately $50 to $60 CAD. You may be able to find similar items for considerably less at a local discount or dollar store.
The specific brands aren’t what matter most. What matters is choosing simple, baby-safe items that encourage talking, playing, and interacting together.
My second suggestion is a collection of baby board books and nursery rhymes paired with a puppet, teddy bear, doll, or stuffed animal.
This is one of my favourite combinations because these simple toys can grow with a child and be used in so many different ways.
A books and pretend play gift set might include:
With a teddy bear, doll, or stuffed animal, parents can talk about and touch body parts:
“Where are Teddy’s eyes?”
“There’s Teddy’s nose!”
“Let’s tickle Teddy’s toes!”
As baby gets older, Teddy can go to sleep, get hungry, feel cold, go for walks, fall down, or get a little boo-boo that needs to be kissed better.
These simple pretend-play experiences give children opportunities to hear words connected to actions, feelings, body parts, and everyday experiences.
A puppet can talk to baby, play peekaboo, make funny sounds, find baby’s nose and fingers, and even pretend to nibble them up.
For a young baby, the puppet may simply be something interesting to watch. As the child grows, that same puppet can become part of songs, stories, pretend play, and conversations.
That’s one of the things I love about simple toys: they don’t have just one purpose. They can change and grow along with the child.
For young babies, look for sturdy board books with simple pictures of familiar objects, animals, people, or everyday routines.
Parents don’t even have to read the words. They can point to pictures, make animal sounds, talk about what they see, or simply let baby hold, touch, and explore the book.
A book about farm animals might lead to:
“Look! A cow! Moooo!”
“There’s a little pig. Oink, oink!”
“Where’s the horse?”
This is how books can become conversations—even before a baby can say a single word.
I also love the idea of including a book of nursery rhymes, songs, and fingerplays.
Many new parents don’t remember the songs and rhymes they heard as children—or perhaps they never learned many in the first place. A good nursery rhyme book gives parents a collection they can learn and enjoy with their baby.
Songs and rhymes offer repetition, rhythm, predictable language, and wonderful opportunities for babies to eventually join in with sounds, actions, and words.
Please note: I have no financial stake in any of these products. Prices are approximate and may vary.
My First Book of Farm Animals by Wonder House Books — approximately $5 CAD
I like simple books featuring familiar animals because they give parents so many easy opportunities for interaction. They can name the animals, make sounds such as “moo,” “baa,” and “oink,” point to pictures, and ask simple questions as baby gets older.
Nursery Rhymes Board Book from the My First Book Series by Wonder House Books — approximately $10 CAD
This is as much a gift for the parent as it is for the baby. A nursery rhyme collection gives parents songs and rhymes they can learn and use during playtime, diaper changes, car rides, or any time they have a few minutes together.
Baby GUND My First Teddy Bear — approximately $14 CAD
A simple teddy bear can become part of countless language-building interactions. Parents can name Teddy’s body parts, give Teddy hugs and kisses, put Teddy to bed, feed Teddy, take Teddy for a walk, or comfort Teddy when he gets a pretend boo-boo.
A Simple Animal Hand Puppet — approximately $20 CAD for a set
Look for puppets with friendly animal faces and moving mouths. A puppet can make sounds, sing songs, play peekaboo, kiss baby’s cheek, find baby’s nose, and eventually become part of pretend conversations.
Depending on current prices and where you shop, this gift set could cost approximately $50 CAD. Again, there is no need to buy these exact brands or spend this much. A simple stuffed animal, puppet, and a couple of thoughtfully chosen books can make a wonderful gift.
A new parent may not see the immediate use for all of these gifts when their baby is first born. That little rubber duck, puppet, teddy bear, or board book might sit on a shelf for a while.
But babies grow quickly.
Before long, parents may be using that duck to play peekaboo in the tub, making a puppet nibble baby’s toes, singing a nursery rhyme, or reading the same board book for the hundredth time.
These are simple gifts, but they can create wonderful opportunities for language, play, and connection.
And what a lovely gift that is.
Whatever you choose, always keep the baby’s age and safety in mind.
Choose toys and books designed for babies, without small parts that could become choking hazards. Bath toys should be appropriate for use in water, and waterproof baby books should be safe for babies to handle and mouth.
Always check the manufacturer’s age and safety recommendations before giving a toy to a baby.
When you are shopping for a baby shower gift, you don’t need to look for something that flashes, talks, sings, or promises to make a baby smarter.
Simple gifts are often some of the best.
A rubber duck. A waterproof book. A teddy bear. A puppet. A sturdy board book. A collection of nursery rhymes.
These simple things give parents opportunities to talk, sing, play, laugh, and connect with their baby. And those everyday interactions are where early communication begins.