Parent & Caregiver Tips · By Cheryl, a retired speech-language pathologist with more than 40 years of experience working with infants, toddlers, and preschoolers.
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24 picture cards — print, cut, and laminate for best results
Is the hardest part of your day getting your child dressed, leaving the park, turning off the TV, or getting ready for bed?
If so, you’re not alone.
Many young children — and especially children who have difficulty with language or social interaction — find transitions stressful. One reason is that they don’t yet have an internal sense of time. They don’t understand that an activity will end, or that something enjoyable may happen next.
When adults say, “Just one more minute,” young children often have no idea what that means.
A simple visual schedule — and the free printable regulation cards for autism and home use below — can make these transitions much easier.
A visual schedule is simply a series of pictures that shows your child what will happen next. Free printable regulation cards for autism use exactly this idea — each card shows one familiar activity, simply and clearly, so your child can understand their day without relying on spoken language alone.
Instead of hearing a long explanation like, “First we’re going to the bathroom, then brush our teeth, then get dressed, then eat breakfast…” your child can see each step.
Pictures are often much easier for young children to understand than spoken directions.
The schedule makes the day more predictable, and predictability helps children feel safe.
Imagine someone walked into your office every few minutes and suddenly said,
“Stop what you’re doing.”
“Now do this.”
“No, we’re finished.”
“Time for something else.”
Most adults would become frustrated.
Now imagine being two years old and still learning language.
Many children become upset during transitions simply because they don’t know what is happening next or when the current activity will end.
A visual schedule removes much of that uncertainty.
Instead of wondering, “What’s happening now?” your child can see, “First breakfast…then get dressed…then we go outside.”
Knowing what comes next helps many children feel calmer, more confident, and more cooperative. This is why free printable regulation cards for autism have become such a widely recommended tool — they reduce uncertainty and give children a way to navigate their day without relying only on words.
One of the wonderful things about a visual schedule is that it gives your child a small amount of control in a world that is mostly controlled by adults.
Place the schedule where your child can easily reach it. When it’s time for the next activity, have your child remove that picture from the schedule. When the activity is finished, let them return the picture to the schedule face down (or place it in an “All Done” pocket) before choosing the next picture.
This simple routine often becomes one of children’s favourite parts of using a visual schedule because they can actually see themselves making progress through their day.
You don’t need anything fancy. Draw simple pictures, print photographs, or download the free printable regulation cards at the bottom of this page.
A morning schedule might include:
An evening schedule might include:
Keep the pictures simple and arrange them from top to bottom. Young children understand “top to bottom” before they understand “left to right.”
One of the greatest benefits of a visual schedule is that it reduces the need for repeated reminders. Instead of saying, “Come on!” “Hurry up!” “I already told you!” simply point to the picture and say,
“Look…school now.”
or
“Bath time now.”
Use as few words as possible. The schedule becomes the reminder instead of you. Many children respond much better to predictable pictures than repeated verbal instructions.
Many home activities naturally end when they’re finished. Bath time ends when everyone is clean. Tooth brushing ends when the teeth are brushed. Dinner ends when everyone has eaten.
The problem is that young children often don’t know how long an activity should last, and they are not good at waiting for others to finish. If they don’t like brushing their teeth, they may swipe the toothbrush across their mouth once and proudly announce, “Done!”
A timer helps solve this problem. I recommend using a sand timer whenever possible because children can actually see the time running out. If you don’t have one, your phone works well too — but keep it out of your child’s reach. Some children become frustrated and may try to grab or throw it.
If your child strongly dislikes an activity, begin with a very short time — perhaps only 30 seconds. The goal at first isn’t perfect tooth brushing. The goal is simply helping your child learn that they stay with the activity until the timer finishes.
Once they understand that routine, you can gradually increase the time and begin working on the activity more effectively. Over time, both the length of the activity and your child’s cooperation usually improve.
One interesting thing I’ve noticed over the years is that the timer often becomes the one ending the activity instead of the parent. Many children accept this much more easily than repeated reminders from an adult.
Choose one part of your day that often leads to frustration. Make a simple picture schedule with three or four steps. Add a timer and use the schedule every day for a week.
You may be surprised how quickly your child begins looking to the schedule instead of looking to you for what comes next.
After more than 40 years as a speech-language pathologist, I’ve learned that many behaviour challenges aren’t really behaviour problems at all. Often, children are simply overwhelmed because they don’t know what is expected or what will happen next.
A visual schedule gives children something they can understand without relying only on spoken language. When children know what’s happening now — and what comes next — they often feel calmer, more confident, and more successful.
Visual schedules don’t just organize your day. They help organize your child’s world. With a few simple pictures, a predictable routine, and a timer, you can reduce stress, encourage independence, and make transitions easier for the whole family.
Sometimes the simplest tools make the biggest difference.
I have included a free set of visual schedule pictures for home use. I would encourage you to print them on card stock and laminate them if you can, and to make several copies — they are likely to get well-used! If there is an activity in your home that isn’t pictured, you can take a photo of that activity on your phone and simply add it to the schedule. In a pinch I have also hand-drawn pictures and then just said, “mini golf now” or “hospital now” — and it works just as well.
Watch this short video to see a visual schedule in action.
24 picture cards — print, cut, and laminate for best results
Regulation Cards for Autism — Physical Set
Prefer a ready-made set? These 24 visual schedule cards are available as sturdy, laminated plastic cards — ready to use straight away.
Pathways to Connection — Social Interaction Program
A complete, scripted social skills intervention program for children with autism and social communication differences. Designed for parents to use at home with minimal training.